A Life on the Other Side of the World
By Melda Sherman — reporting from Boston
In this story, I’ll quite literally take you to the other side of the globe — to the Southern Hemisphere, to Sydney, Australia.
My guest, Buket Behçet Balaban, speaks candidly about not only what life is like in Sydney, but also how migration shapes a person’s outlook, resilience, and sense of belonging. This interview feels especially meaningful to me, as Buket is also a reader of my book Migratory Birds. I’d like to take this chance to thank her once again for our warm and heartfelt exchange.
Buket Behcet BALABAN/ Sydney
From Izmir to Sydney: A Journey Across Continents
Born and raised in Izmir, Turkey, Buket Behçet Balaban now lives in Sydney with her husband and two children.
Her connection with Australia began back in 1980, when she first migrated there. After spending several years in Izmir again, she and her family decided to return to Sydney in 2004 — and they’ve called it home ever since.
“I love life, art, animals, and traveling,” she says warmly. Buket works for the Australian Federal Government in a social services agency that provides support such as pensions, unemployment benefits, and family assistance.
Sydney: Where Modern Life Meets Nature
To Buket, Sydney feels a lot like Izmir in climate and spirit.
“It’s mild all year round — we hardly ever experience cold winters,” she notes.
The city is famous for its clean beaches, wide open parks, and natural beauty, but also for its vibrant multicultural energy.
Australia’s democratic system, strong social policies, high standard of living, and world-class healthcare make it, in Buket’s words, “a truly advanced country.”
A Crossroads of Cultures
Australia’s population is a fascinating blend of backgrounds — nearly 47% of residents are immigrants or children of immigrants, and around 260 languages are spoken nationwide.
The government’s commitment to multiculturalism, Buket says, creates an atmosphere of respect and coexistence:
“In a country where people come from so many different backgrounds, you encounter all kinds of customs and traditions — and that makes life here even more enjoyable.”
Sydney
Adapting to a New Life: Language Is the Key
For Buket, one factor stands above all when it comes to building a new life abroad: language.
“The better you know the language, the easier it is to adapt,” she emphasizes.
She describes herself as someone who adjusts quickly — although the beginning was challenging, she soon found her footing.
Her advice to those considering a move overseas is clear and simple:
“Learn the language of the country as best as you can. Once you do that, everything else falls into place.”
Careers, Travel, and the Distance from Home
In Sydney, she says, some of the most in-demand professions are in IT, nursing, accounting, and electrical work.
Though she’s deeply rooted in her Australian life, Buket keeps close ties with Turkey, visiting roughly every two years. The long journey, however, can be demanding:
“It’s a 20- to 25-hour flight. As you get older, that trip feels even longer,” she admits with a smile.
A Philosophy for Living: Stay Positive and Embrace Life
When I ask about her life philosophy, Buket’s husband describes her this way:
“She’s someone who always sees the glass half full — optimistic, open-minded, and kind. She never judges people by their religion, race, or personal choices, and she has a deep love for animals and different cultures.”
A Message to the Universe
If she could send one message out into the universe, what would it be?
Buket answers thoughtfully:
“We need to live with future generations in mind. This world isn’t a legacy we’ve inherited — it’s a trust we must protect. If we support each other, help one another, and care for animals and the environment, the world will become a much more beautiful place. And above all — good health is everything.”
Editor’s Note
From Sydney to Boston, this conversation created a heartfelt bridge between two corners of the world.
Buket Behcet Balaban’s story isn’t just about migration — it’s about rebuilding a life with courage, grace, and hope.
“Life is like a marathon. Along the way, someone always runs beside you. Sometimes you fall behind, sometimes you surge ahead, and the people around you change. When that happens, stay calm. Say farewell to those who leave, and welcome those who arrive. That’s the secret to a happy, peaceful life — acceptance.”
— Melda Sherman, Migratory Birds
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Series: People Of Another World
Written by: Melda Sherman
Boston, 2025
