{"id":7719,"date":"2026-06-29T10:18:07","date_gmt":"2026-06-29T07:18:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/?p=7719"},"modified":"2026-06-29T10:23:56","modified_gmt":"2026-06-29T07:23:56","slug":"we-are-born-mad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/7719\/we-are-born-mad\/","title":{"rendered":"DEL\u0130 DO\u011eDUK"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101752084.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7723\" width=\"405\" height=\"443\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn karde\u015fim bir video yollad\u0131; G\u00fcnd\u00fcz Vassaf&#8217;\u0131n bir konu\u015fmas\u0131. Bir \u015feyi s\u00f6yledi, i\u00e7imde bir \u015feyler k\u0131m\u0131ldad\u0131.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Hepimiz deli do\u011far\u0131z&#8221; dedi. &#8220;Ama deli kalabilmek zordur.&#8221;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130lk duydu\u011fumda g\u00fcld\u00fcm. Sonra durdum.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fru. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa bak korkusuzca dans eder, sebepsiz g\u00fcler, kurals\u0131z \u00e7izer. Kimse ona &#8220;deli&#8221; demez. Hen\u00fcz &#8220;normal&#8221; olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015ftir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. O \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, o kurals\u0131zl\u0131k, o yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k\u2026 hepsi hen\u00fcz yerli yerinde. D\u00fcnya hen\u00fcz ona \u015feklini dayatmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sonra d\u00fczen gelir. Okul gelir, beklentiler gelir, &#8220;\u00f6yle yap\u0131lmaz&#8221; gelir. Bir g\u00fcn fark edersin ki kahkahalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131sm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, fikirlerini yumu\u015fatm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, kendinle \u00e7eli\u015fir gibi hissettiren her \u015feyden sessizce geri \u00e7ekilmi\u015fsin. Biz buna b\u00fcy\u00fcmek diyoruz. Ama asl\u0131nda bir \u015feyleri birer birer b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz, zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131larak. Ve en \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc yan\u0131, bunu fark etmeden yap\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"975\" height=\"650\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7721\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096.png 975w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096-150x100.png 150w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101006096-696x464.png 696w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 975px) 100vw, 975px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Vassaf&#8217;\u0131n dedi\u011fi tam da buydu: Delilik bir tan\u0131 de\u011fil. Toplumun kal\u0131plar\u0131na s\u0131\u011fmay\u0131 reddeden, i\u00e7indeki \u00e7ocu\u011fu hen\u00fcz susturmam\u0131\u015f olanlar\u0131n hali. Bir sapk\u0131nl\u0131k de\u011fil asl\u0131nda en saf, en d\u00fcr\u00fcst varolu\u015f bi\u00e7imi.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ben de zaman zaman o sesi duyuyorum. Yoga mat\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde, sessizlikte, nefesle birlikte. Hareketin ortas\u0131nda, zihin durdu\u011funda, beden konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. O anlarda bir \u015fey oluyor savunmalar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor, kontrol gev\u015fiyor, katmanlar katmanlar soyunuyor. Ve alt\u0131nda, hep orada beklemi\u015f biri \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor kar\u015f\u0131ma. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, merakl\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcr. Hen\u00fcz kimseye benzemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayan biri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-768x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7722\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-768x1024.png 768w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-225x300.png 225w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-150x200.png 150w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-300x400.png 300w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453-696x928.png 696w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/gorsel_2026-06-29_101025453.png 975w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>O an kendimle kal\u0131yorum. Kendimi tan\u0131mak istiyorum, anlamak istiyorum ama bazen bu yolculuk bir yar\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Kendimle yar\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum; daha iyi ol, daha \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015f, daha fazla hisset. Sonra duruyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark ediyorum: Bu da bir kal\u0131p. Daha iyiye ko\u015fmak bile bazen o \u00f6zg\u00fcr \u00e7ocu\u011fu susturuyor. As\u0131l olan kendime zarar vermeden, kendimle bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde o sesi duymaya devam etmek. M\u00fckemmel olmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, sadece var olmak i\u00e7in. Art\u0131k onu t\u00f6rp\u00fclemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorum. Aksine, ona alan a\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark ettim ki en derin iyile\u015fme, en samimi yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k, en ger\u00e7ek ba\u011flant\u0131 hep o \u00e7ocuktan geliyor.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki as\u0131l mesele bu: Delili\u011fini kaybetmemek. O \u00e7ocuksu, \u00f6zg\u00fcr, kurals\u0131z yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 korumak d\u00fczen ne kadar \u00fcst\u00fcne gelse de, hayat ne kadar \u015fekillendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa da..<br>Sende hala o \u00e7ocuk var m\u0131? Onu ne zaman son duymu\u015ftun?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Melis GENCE<br>instagram: @melispurelife<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn karde\u015fim bir video yollad\u0131; G\u00fcnd\u00fcz Vassaf&#8217;\u0131n bir konu\u015fmas\u0131. Bir \u015feyi s\u00f6yledi, i\u00e7imde bir \u015feyler k\u0131m\u0131ldad\u0131. &#8220;Hepimiz deli do\u011far\u0131z&#8221; dedi. &#8220;Ama deli kalabilmek zordur.&#8221; \u0130lk duydu\u011fumda g\u00fcld\u00fcm. Sonra durdum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc do\u011fru. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa bak korkusuzca dans eder, sebepsiz g\u00fcler, kurals\u0131z \u00e7izer. Kimse ona &#8220;deli&#8221; demez. Hen\u00fcz &#8220;normal&#8221; olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015ftir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. O \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, o kurals\u0131zl\u0131k, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":7720,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[68],"tags":[28,42,41],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.0","language":"tr","enabled_languages":["en","tr"],"languages":{"en":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"tr":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7719"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7719"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7719\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7726,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7719\/revisions\/7726"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7719"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7719"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7719"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}