{"id":7293,"date":"2026-03-09T14:49:57","date_gmt":"2026-03-09T11:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/?p=7293"},"modified":"2026-03-09T22:25:01","modified_gmt":"2026-03-09T19:25:01","slug":"borders-change-emotions-dont-the-human-stories-of-migration","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/7293\/borders-change-emotions-dont-the-human-stories-of-migration\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u0131n\u0131rlar De\u011fi\u015fir, Duygular De\u011fil: G\u00f6\u00e7menli\u011fin \u0130nsan Hik\u00e2yeleri"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/image-17.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7303\" width=\"167\" height=\"161\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Melda SHERMAN<\/strong> \/ Boston<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6\u00e7 Hik\u00e2yeleri<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Melda Sherman \u2013 Arttmodernmiami<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00f6\u00e7menlik\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten arafta kalmak m\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00f6\u00e7menlik \u00fczerine yaz\u0131yorum. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te y\u00fczlerce insanla konu\u015ftum, say\u0131s\u0131z r\u00f6portaj yapt\u0131m. Migratory Birds kitab\u0131m\u0131 yazarken ise yaln\u0131zca bug\u00fcn\u00fcn hik\u00e2yelerine de\u011fil, y\u00fczlerce y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine uzanan g\u00f6\u00e7 anlat\u0131lar\u0131na da bakt\u0131m. Ve fark etti\u011fim \u015fey olduk\u00e7a \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zaman de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dclkeler de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama duygular de\u011fi\u015fmiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kay\u0131p\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6zlem\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Korku\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Heyecan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Bir yerden ba\u015fka bir yere giden insanlar, binlerce y\u0131ld\u0131r ayn\u0131 duygular\u0131n i\u00e7inden ge\u00e7iyor. Dinledi\u011fim hik\u00e2yeler o kadar farkl\u0131yd\u0131 ki\u2026 Duygular ayn\u0131 olsa da, hi\u00e7bir hayat birbirine benzemiyor. Her g\u00f6\u00e7 hik\u00e2yesi bir parmak izi gibi; tamamen ki\u015fiye \u00f6zg\u00fc. Bu nedenle yeni kitab\u0131m i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m hik\u00e2yelerden baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 bu k\u00f6\u015fede payla\u015fmaya karar verdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"612\" height=\"408\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/image-8.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/image-8.jpeg 612w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/image-8-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/image-8-150x100.jpeg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 612px) 100vw, 612px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Parenting and family lifestyle concept.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ki\u015filerin ve \u015fehirlerin isimlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirerek anlat\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; S\u00fcreyya ile New York\u2019ta tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne\u015feli, \u015fen \u015fakrak, konu\u015fmay\u0131 seven bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Zeki, bilgili ve g\u00f6rg\u00fcl\u00fcyd\u00fc. Ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 sormad\u0131m ama muhtemelen altm\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ya\u015flar\u0131ndayd\u0131. Ama baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131 tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bilmeye gerek yoktur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n hik\u00e2yeleri y\u00fczlerinden okunur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; S\u00fcreyya da \u00f6yleydi. Anlatmay\u0131 seviyordu. Zaten ger\u00e7ek bir hik\u00e2yesi olan insanlar\u0131 susturmak kolay de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; S\u00fcreyya b\u00fcy\u00fck ve tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f \u015fehirlerden birinde, olduk\u00e7a iyi bir ailenin k\u0131z\u0131 olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Varl\u0131kl\u0131 bir doktor baban\u0131n ve korumac\u0131 bir annenin el bebek g\u00fcl bebek yeti\u015ftirdi\u011fi g\u00fczel bir gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nd\u0131. Ailesinin beklentilerine uygun bir hayat kurdu.Bir doktorla evlendi.D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda her \u015fey m\u00fckemmeldi. Ama baz\u0131 hayatlar vitrin gibidir. Parlak g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr\u2026ama i\u00e7i karanl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; E\u015fi zamanla \u015fiddet uygulayan, narsistik bir adama d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Bu evlilikten bir \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 oldu. Tam o y\u0131llarda S\u00fcreyya\u2019n\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc babas\u0131 ve onu koruyan annesi de hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Art\u0131k onu koruyan kimse yoktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; Kendisi eczac\u0131yd\u0131. E\u011fitimliydi. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc. Ama buna ra\u011fmen, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan imrenilen hayat\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde giderek daha da yaln\u0131zla\u015f\u0131yordu. Sonunda bo\u015fanmaya karar verdi. \u00c7ocuk annede kald\u0131. Hen\u00fcz dokuz ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; \u00c7o\u011fu insan i\u00e7in hik\u00e2ye burada biter. Ama baz\u0131 hayatlarda as\u0131l hik\u00e2ye tam da burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen bir kad\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 yeniden kurmak i\u00e7in yaln\u0131zca bir \u015fey yapar:&nbsp; Bir bavul haz\u0131rlar. \u0130yimser bir plan yapar. Cesurdur; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc paras\u0131 da vard\u0131r.Ve u\u00e7a\u011fa biner. Ama yaln\u0131z de\u011fildir. Yan\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fu ve \u00fcniversite y\u0131llar\u0131ndan bir erkek arkada\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; S\u00fcreyya\u2019n\u0131n Amerika\u2019ya geli\u015fi de tam b\u00f6yle ba\u015flad\u0131. Ama Amerika\u2019ya gelen herkes yeni bir hayata ba\u015flamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131lar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca eski hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6lgesini de yan\u0131nda getirir. S\u00fcreyya\u2019n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesi ise sand\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan \u00e7ok daha karma\u015f\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve bana o g\u00fcn s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bir c\u00fcmleyi h\u00e2l\u00e2 unutam\u0131yorum:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u0130nsan bazen bir \u00fclkeden de\u011fil\u2026 kendi hayat\u0131ndan g\u00f6\u00e7 ediyor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00fcreyya\u2019n\u0131n Amerika\u2019daki ger\u00e7ek ve inan\u0131lmaz hik\u00e2yesi ise<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>bir sonraki yaz\u0131da ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014-Devam edecek\u2014-<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Melda Sherman<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>www.meldasherman.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instagram: @melssherman<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Facebook: Melda Sherman<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00f6\u00e7 Hik\u00e2yeleri Melda Sherman \u2013 Arttmodernmiami G\u00f6\u00e7menlik\u2026 Ger\u00e7ekten arafta kalmak m\u0131d\u0131r? &nbsp;&nbsp; Uzun y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00f6\u00e7menlik \u00fczerine yaz\u0131yorum. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te y\u00fczlerce insanla konu\u015ftum, say\u0131s\u0131z r\u00f6portaj yapt\u0131m. Migratory Birds kitab\u0131m\u0131 yazarken ise yaln\u0131zca bug\u00fcn\u00fcn hik\u00e2yelerine de\u011fil, y\u00fczlerce y\u0131l \u00f6ncesine uzanan g\u00f6\u00e7 anlat\u0131lar\u0131na da bakt\u0131m. Ve fark etti\u011fim \u015fey olduk\u00e7a \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131yd\u0131: Zaman de\u011fi\u015fiyor. \u00dclkeler de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Ama duygular de\u011fi\u015fmiyor. 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