{"id":4376,"date":"2024-09-16T07:28:32","date_gmt":"2024-09-16T04:28:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/?p=4376"},"modified":"2024-09-18T07:46:51","modified_gmt":"2024-09-18T04:46:51","slug":"crossroads","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/4376\/crossroads\/","title":{"rendered":"Yol Ayr\u0131m\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>ArtTModern Miami\u2019nin naif, hassas ve ayr\u0131cal\u0131kl\u0131 ruhlar\u0131! Selamlar. Nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z? Ben uzun bir tatildeyim. Ege\u2019deyim. Turkuaz mavisi sular\u0131 ve insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini \u0131s\u0131tan g\u00fcne\u015fi ile yaz bitmesin dedirten Ege\u2019de.<br>Bug\u00fcn sahilde denizi ve insanlar\u0131 izlerken Eyl\u00fcl ay\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131s\u0131 kafamda kendili\u011finden \u015fekillendi. Eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde de hi\u00e7 ara vermeden yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015e\u00f6yle ki; \u201cAyn\u0131 yolu beraber y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar, asl\u0131nda bize sadece gidecekleri yere kadar e\u015flik ediyor.&#8221; Son zamanlarda benim ve \u00e7evremdeki herkesin \u00fcst\u00fcnde durdu\u011fu sorunsal.<br>Pandemiden sonra de\u011fi\u015fen insan ili\u015fkilerinden mi, yoksa asl\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekte hep olan, insan\u0131n vakti geldi\u011finde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey mi? Siz bu konuda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimine g\u00f6re yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rakmak ya da b\u0131rak\u0131lmak olarak alg\u0131lan\u0131r.<br>Belki yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rak\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131n. Belki asl\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131ndaki ki\u015finin istek ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layabilecek yeterlilikte olamad\u0131n. Belki de ilerlemek, kendini geli\u015ftirmek ve g\u00fcncellemek ad\u0131na yeterli m\u00fccadeleyi veremedin.<br>Sebep her ne olursa olsun sonu\u00e7ta insan d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p bu yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda kendini bulabiliyor.<br>Kendini bir toplu ta\u015f\u0131ma arac\u0131 gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn. Ara\u00e7 ilerledik\u00e7e bu ara\u00e7la yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kan bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi olacakt\u0131r. Hatta bir \u00c7in atas\u00f6z\u00fc der ki; Bir insan\u0131 tan\u0131mak istiyorsan onunla yola \u00e7\u0131k!<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Senin i\u00e7in do\u011fru veya yanl\u0131\u015f insan olmalar\u0131n\u0131 ancak o yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda anlars\u0131n. Do\u011fru veya yanl\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131n\u0131n bilincine ancak bu ki\u015filere e\u015fit \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde zaman ay\u0131r\u0131p, \u015fans vererek varabilirsin. Kimileri senin yol almana, kimileri ise senin yava\u015flamana sebep olur. Size de ayn\u0131 \u015fey olmad\u0131 m\u0131?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu nedenle de hayat\u0131m\u0131zda yol ayr\u0131mlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Yol ayr\u0131mlar\u0131 sanc\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r; seni sen k\u0131lar. Hatta kar\u015f\u0131ndaki ki\u015finin bile kendisine \u00e7eki d\u00fczen vermesine sebep olur. Yollar\u0131m\u0131z bu ki\u015filerle bir sebeple birle\u015fmi\u015ftir. Senin ondan alacaklar\u0131n ve \u00f6\u011freneceklerin oldu\u011fu gibi, onun da senden alaca\u011f\u0131 ve \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fi \u00e7ok \u015feyi olacakt\u0131r. Tek fark, birinizin \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu yolda daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ilerlemek istiyor olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Di\u011feri ya yerinde sayar ya da biraz daha vakti vard\u0131r. Bunu kader ile ili\u015fkilendirenler olacakt\u0131r. Bunun kaderle ili\u015fkisi yoktur.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesela Tebrizli \u015eems\u2019e g\u00f6re ;\u201cKader, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6nceden belli olmas\u0131 demek de\u011fildir. Bu nedenle; \u201cne yapal\u0131m kaderim b\u00f6yle\u201d diyerek boyun b\u00fckmek cehalet g\u00f6stergesidir. Kader yolun tamam\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, sadece yol ayr\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 verir. G\u00fczerg\u00e2h bellidir ama t\u00fcm d\u00f6neme\u00e7 ve sapaklar yolcuya aittir. \u00d6yleyse ne hayat\u0131na h\u00e2kimsin, ne de hayat kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7aresizsin\u2026\u201d (Tebrizli \u015eems\u2019in 40 kural\u0131ndan biri)<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir sabah i\u00e7inde d\u00fcnyan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme hissiyle uyan\u0131rs\u0131n. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bir r\u00fcya m\u0131 desem, \u00fcst\u00fcn a\u00e7\u0131k uyumu\u015fsun mu desem bilmiyorum ama o sabahtan sonra hi\u00e7bir \u015fey ayn\u0131 olmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"982\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-982x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4377\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-982x1024.png 982w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-288x300.png 288w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-768x801.png 768w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-150x156.png 150w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-300x313.png 300w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9-696x726.png 696w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-9.png 1025w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 982px) 100vw, 982px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir ba\u015fka senle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n. Hatta bazen yeni seni takdim edersin insanlara. Yeni yollardan, sapaklardan, k\u00f6pr\u00fclerden ge\u00e7ersin. Okudu\u011fun kitaplar, sinemada izledi\u011fin filmler, \u015fark\u0131lar de\u011fi\u015fir. Dur daha bitmedi bi bakars\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fehir bile de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yaln\u0131z do\u011far, yaln\u0131z ya\u015far, yaln\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcr\u00fcz. Yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yan\u0131lsamas\u0131n\u0131 sadece sevgi ve dostluk \u00fczerinden ge\u00e7ici olarak deneyimleriz. \u0130nsan asl\u0131nda k\u0131r\u0131lgan ve naiftir. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman ge\u00e7mi\u015fine s\u0131k\u0131ca tutunur. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fay\u0131p, etraf\u0131n\u0131 da bu ge\u00e7mi\u015fin etraf\u0131nda \u015fekillendirir. Oysa ger\u00e7ek ben ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn, ge\u00e7mi\u015f ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kal\u0131r. Bakmaz tekrar arkas\u0131na. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gidilecek yollar, ke\u015ffedilecek koca bir orman vard\u0131r \u00f6n\u00fcnde.<br>Allah a\u015fk\u0131na, hangimiz yakmad\u0131k Roma\u2019y\u0131? Mesela ben! Ka\u00e7 tane Roma yakt\u0131m inan\u0131n bilmiyorum.<br>Hangimiz g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn k\u00f6r oldu\u011fu zamanlar\u0131 unutup, her \u015feye yeni ba\u015ftan ba\u015flamad\u0131k? Tarih tekerr\u00fcr eder de hayat\u0131m\u0131z etmez mi san\u0131rs\u0131n?<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu nedenle yak\u0131lacak Roma varsa yak\u0131n, de\u011fi\u015ftirilecek \u015fehir varsa de\u011fi\u015ftirin, yeni a\u015fklara kap\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131n, sebepsiz iyilikler yap\u0131n ve l\u00fctfen o yeni yola sap\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"842\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-842x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4378\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-842x1024.png 842w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-247x300.png 247w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-768x934.png 768w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-150x182.png 150w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-300x365.png 300w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10-696x846.png 696w, https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/image-10.png 974w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 842px) 100vw, 842px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Yeni \u015fehir, yeni insanlar, yeni sabahlar ve bamba\u015fka bir sen\u2026 \u0130\u015fte art\u0131k ba\u011f\u0131ra \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ra yeni \u015feyler s\u00f6yledi\u011fin zamanlardas\u0131nd\u0131r. Y\u00fcre\u011finin en kuytu k\u00f6\u015felerine gizledi\u011fin k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n zamanlar.<br>G\u00f6receksiniz bu sizin yolunuz. Elbet sizi kar\u015f\u0131layanlar olacakt\u0131r. Hatta o yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda size \u015funu da s\u00f6yleyebilirler:<br>Tekrar tekrar ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri ya\u015fay\u0131p, farkl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar beklemekten s\u0131k\u0131lanlar kul\u00fcb\u00fcne ho\u015f geldiniz! Ba\u015fka ne al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z?<br>Yeni tercihlerini yapman i\u00e7in getirilip b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda korkuya yer yok. Sapla saman\u0131n ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, hasad\u0131n \u00e7oktan yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlar bunlar.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sana bug\u00fcne kadar \u00f6\u011fretilen t\u00fcm eskimi\u015f k\u00f6hnele\u015fmi\u015f duygular\u0131 arkanda b\u0131rak\u0131p, anayasan\u0131 tekrar yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n zamanlar.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte s\u00f6yledi\u011fin yalanlar\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n, g\u00f6lgelerinden s\u0131yr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n, kafan dik y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn benzersiz zamanlar.<br>Hayat\u0131na \u00e7ekti\u011fin temiz sayfalardan belki de en sonuncusu bu olabilir. Kim bilir?<br>Art\u0131k gen\u00e7 de de\u011filsindir. Gen\u00e7 olmak g\u00fczeldir ama tecr\u00fcbeyle yolcu\u011fu hi\u00e7 olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r gen\u00e7 olan\u0131n. Sen o yoldan gelirken ben d\u00f6n\u00fcyordum o y\u00fczden denir. \u00d6nceliklerin farkl\u0131la\u015f\u0131r, se\u00e7imlerin sadele\u015fir, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n artar. Azal\u0131rm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n gibi gelir asl\u0131nda kendinle \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131rs\u0131n. Bu pencereden bakmayanlarla, i\u015fte o yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda ayr\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n. Ya o seni b\u0131rak\u0131r, ya sen onu b\u0131rak\u0131rs\u0131n. \u0130necek olan kalmas\u0131n son durak diye bir ses duyars\u0131n aniden. Yolculuk buraya kadar der i\u00e7 sesin.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Son kez arkana bakmadan uzakla\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n. Bakarsan ge\u00e7mi\u015fe tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmaktan korkarak, o s\u0131rada g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnden film \u015feridi gibi ge\u00e7en ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belki de son kez seyrediyorsundur inan.<br>Valizinde sadece deneyimlerin, tecr\u00fcbelerin vard\u0131r. Akl\u0131na ise her ak\u015fam uykuya dalmadan tekrarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fifa veren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol>\n<li>Hak ediyorum!<br>Ben hayat\u0131mda mutlulu\u011fu, bollu\u011fu, sevgiyi ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmay\u0131 hak ediyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kabul ediyorum!<br>Zor durumlardan dersler \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenmeyi ama t\u00fcm bunlara ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fe tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmamay\u0131 kabul ediyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0130zin veriyorum!<br>G\u00fczelliklere, ne\u015feli olmaya, gelen iyilikleri almaya izin veriyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seviyorum!<br>Hayat\u0131 karanl\u0131k ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131k yanlar\u0131yla, insanlar\u0131 karanl\u0131k ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131k yanlar\u0131yla, kendimi karanl\u0131k ve ayd\u0131nl\u0131k yanlar\u0131mla seviyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Se\u00e7iyorum!<br>Benim i\u00e7in do\u011fru olan\u0131, \u00fczmeyeni, k\u0131rmayan\u0131, i\u00e7imi ayd\u0131nlatan\u0131, huzur vereni, yolumu kolayla\u015ft\u0131ran\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Affediyorum!<br>Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi bir y\u00fck olarak ta\u015f\u0131mamak i\u00e7in, kendimi \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in, kalbimi yormamak i\u00e7in affediyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Davet ediyorum!<br>Hayat\u0131ma daha fazla bilgeli\u011fi, anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, e\u011flenceyi, seyahati, yeni dostluklar\u0131, heyecan verici deneyimleri davet ediyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u015e\u00fckrediyorum!<br>G\u00f6rebildi\u011fim ve hen\u00fcz g\u00f6remedi\u011fim t\u00fcm iyilik ve g\u00fczelliklere \u015f\u00fckrediyorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Serbest b\u0131rak\u0131yorum!<br>Gitmesi gerekenleri, bitmesi gerekenleri, s\u00fcresi dolanlar\u0131 yenilere yer a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in serbest b\u0131rak\u0131yorum.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0130nan\u0131yorum!<br>Mucizelere, korundu\u011fuma, sadece do\u011fru olan\u0131n hayat\u0131ma geldi\u011fine ve do\u011fru olmayan\u0131n kendili\u011finden gitti\u011fine inan\u0131yorum.<br>Bedenim, bedenimdeki h\u00fccreler, organlar\u0131m bu \u015fifa veren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler do\u011frultusunda \u015fifa bulacakt\u0131r.<br>Buna derinden inan\u0131yorum ve kabul ediyorum.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Kamil \u00c7ak\u0131r<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kaynak: \u015eamanik Yol (\u015eifa veren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ArtTModern Miami\u2019nin naif, hassas ve ayr\u0131cal\u0131kl\u0131 ruhlar\u0131! Selamlar. Nas\u0131ls\u0131n\u0131z? Ben uzun bir tatildeyim. Ege\u2019deyim. Turkuaz mavisi sular\u0131 ve insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini \u0131s\u0131tan g\u00fcne\u015fi ile yaz bitmesin dedirten Ege\u2019de.Bug\u00fcn sahilde denizi ve insanlar\u0131 izlerken Eyl\u00fcl ay\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131s\u0131 kafamda kendili\u011finden \u015fekillendi. Eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde de hi\u00e7 ara vermeden yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m. \u015e\u00f6yle ki; \u201cAyn\u0131 yolu beraber y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insanlar, asl\u0131nda [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":4379,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[68],"tags":[21,99,101,123,75,98],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.0","language":"tr","enabled_languages":["en","tr"],"languages":{"en":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"tr":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4376"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4376"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4376\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4399,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4376\/revisions\/4399"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4379"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}