{"id":3622,"date":"2024-03-06T08:03:46","date_gmt":"2024-03-06T05:03:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/?p=3622"},"modified":"2024-03-06T08:14:58","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T05:14:58","slug":"women-who-run-with-the-wolves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arttmodernmiami.com\/tr\/3622\/women-who-run-with-the-wolves\/","title":{"rendered":"KURTLARLA KO\u015eAN KADINLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cBir k\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131 varsa, \u00e7ok dikkatli ya\u015famas\u0131 gerekir\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Danseden Pabu\u00e7lar Masal\u0131ndan \/ Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar, Clarissa P. Estes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn sizlere ba\u015fucu kitaplar\u0131mdan biri olan bir kitap tan\u0131taca\u011f\u0131m.  Yazar\u0131, Clarissa Pinkola Estes. 100 y\u0131la yak\u0131n s\u00fcredir zirvede! Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir kitap! Neden mi? \u0130\u015fte buyurun:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kitap; kad\u0131nlar\u0131n varolu\u015fu ve toplumdaki yeriyle ilgili tespitleri, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 kurtlara benzeterek ele al\u0131yor. Daha da ilginci bunlar\u0131, bilinen masallar\u0131 felsefi boyutta inceleyerek yap\u0131yor. 19. yy da yay\u0131nlanan kitap, her d\u00f6nem en \u00e7ok okunanlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kad\u0131n t\u0131pk\u0131 bir kurt gibidir. Sa\u011flam kurt; diri, hayat verici, konumunun bilincinde, yarat\u0131c\u0131, sad\u0131k ve g\u00f6\u00e7ebedir.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar, Clarissa P. Estes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kitaptan bir c\u00fcmleyle ilginizi \u00e7ektim san\u0131r\u0131m J devam ediyorum, bu ilgin\u00e7 kitab\u0131 anlatmaya\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toplumda \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fit kad\u0131nlar var; hemen g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn pop\u00fcler s\u0131fatlar\u0131ndan Alfas\u0131n\u0131, Betas\u0131n\u0131, Sigmas\u0131n\u0131, Ezik olan\u0131n\u0131 vs. getiriniz. Kitaba g\u00f6re bu \u00e7e\u015fitlili\u011fin sebepleri; kapitalist sistemde ruhlar\u0131 uyutulan kad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Yazar masallar \u00fczerinden adeta terapi yap\u0131yor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKad\u0131nlar\u0131n hi\u00e7bir zaman ak\u0131tamad\u0131klar\u0131 okyanuslar dolusu g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc annelerinin s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131, babalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131, erkeklerin s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131, toplumun s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 ve kendi s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 mezara g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek \u00fczere e\u011fitilmi\u015flerdir. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n a\u011flamas\u0131 tamamen tehlikeli olarak de\u011ferlendirilmi\u015ftir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u011flamak, ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 s\u0131rlar\u0131n s\u00fcrg\u00fclerini ve kilitlerini gev\u015fetir\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar, Clarissa P. Estes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kitab\u0131n ana fikri; Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gereken ilk \u015feyin i\u00e7lerindeki do\u011fal sesi ke\u015ffetmek olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u00e7lerinde yatan s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z g\u00fc\u00e7 ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, kurtlar\u0131n do\u011fal yaban\u0131ll\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sav\u0131n\u0131 ileri s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. B\u00fcy\u00fcmemizi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr olmam\u0131z\u0131 te\u015fvik eden d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc \u201ckurt\u201d ile temasa ge\u00e7mekten bahseder. Hepimizin i\u00e7inde vah\u015fi bir kurt kad\u0131n var. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark\u0131nda olmadan i\u00e7selle\u015ftirmek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 eziklik ve yetersizlik duygusuna, bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f cinsel g\u00fcd\u00fclerine \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fik bir malzemeden yakla\u015f\u0131yor kitap; masallar \u00fczerinden\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e9s\u2019e g\u00f6re, kurtlarla kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda, vah\u015filikleri, zarafetleri ve i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 toplulu\u011fun \u00fcyelerine duyduklar\u0131 ba\u011f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan psi\u015fik bir benzerlik vard\u0131r. Kurtlar ve kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131ndaki bu benzerlik, Vah\u015fi Kad\u0131n arketipinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Kitaptaki farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerden derlenen masallar, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ili\u015fkileri, ki\u015fisel imgeleri ve hatta ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k gibi temalar \u00e7evresinde geli\u015fiyor. \u00d6rne\u011fin; Afrika k\u00f6kenli bir \u00f6yk\u00fc, kad\u0131n\u0131n ikili do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131yor. Ortado\u011fu’ya ait bir masal, s\u0131radan bir kilim gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen b\u00fcy\u00fcl\u00fc bir hal\u0131n\u0131n toplumun \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe ne kadar kolay aldand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koyuyor. Bu arada kitap sadece kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in de\u011fil; kad\u0131nlarla vah\u015fi bir noktada bulu\u015fmak isteyen erkekler i\u00e7in de vazge\u00e7ilmez bir rehber \u00f6zelli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131yor. Bence erkeklerde okumal\u0131 J<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cOrmana gitme dediler. Ormana gitme!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neden gitmeyecekmi\u015fim? Gece neden ormana gitmemem gerekiyormu\u015f, diye yan\u0131tlad\u0131.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orada senin gibi insanlar\u0131 yiyen koca bir kurt ya\u015far. Ormana gitme, gitme. \u00c7ok ciddiyim.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do\u011fal olarak, k\u0131z ormana gitti. Bir \u015fekilde ormana gitti ve tabii ki onu daha \u00f6nce ikaz etmi\u015f olduklar\u0131 gibi, kurtla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bak sana s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftik, diye b\u00f6b\u00fcrlendiler.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu benim hayat\u0131m, peri masal\u0131 de\u011fil, sizi gidi ahmaklar, dedi. Ormana gitmem gerek ve kurtla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam gerek, yoksa hayat\u0131m asla ba\u015flamayacak…\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 K\u0131z masal\u0131 \/ Kurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar,<\/em> <\/em>Clarissa P. Estes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Giri\u015f b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde neden kurtlarla kad\u0131nlar\u0131 benzetti\u011fini uzun uzun a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015f. K\u0131saca \u00f6zetlemem gerekirse; sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kurtlar ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kad\u0131nlar belirli ruhsal karakteristikleri payla\u015f\u0131rlar: Keskin bir duyarl\u0131l\u0131k, oyuncu bir ruh ve yo\u011fun bir kendini adama kapasitesi. Kurtlar ve kad\u0131nlar, do\u011falar\u0131, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck bir dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k ve g\u00fcce sahip olmalar\u0131 bak\u0131m\u0131ndan yak\u0131n akrabad\u0131rlar. Sezgileri \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr, yavrular\u0131, e\u015fleri ve s\u00fcr\u00fcleriyle yo\u011fun bir bi\u00e7im de ilgilenirler. S\u00fcrekli de\u011fi\u015fen ko\u015fullara uyum sa\u011flamakta deneyimlidirler; tuttuklar\u0131n\u0131 koparmalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7ok da cesurdurlar. Estes, ba\u015fka hayvanlar\u0131 da incelemi\u015f ancak en \u00e7ok benzerlik g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz hayvanlar kurtlarm\u0131\u015f. Ve bu arada unutmadan not edeyim; kitap 20 y\u0131lda derlenmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cKad\u0131nlar dayatmalarda vah\u015fi do\u011falar\u0131ndan kopar\u0131ld\u0131\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e9s\u2019e g\u00f6re kad\u0131nlar y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r s\u00fcregelen t\u00fcrl\u00fc dayatmalardan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc vah\u015fi do\u011falar\u0131ndan kopar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcnden bu kadar kopan kad\u0131n i\u00e7 bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f, kendine bi\u00e7ilen kaftana uygun olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, kaybolmu\u015f ve sonu\u00e7 olarak da kendini i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e hep yetersiz hissetmi\u015ftir. Bu yetersizlik duygusu ise t\u00fcrl\u00fc psikolojik travmalar\u0131 beraberinde getirmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n do\u011fa ile kopan ba\u011f\u0131 ve yeniden yak\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131yor. Clarissa P. Est\u00e9s, Jung ekol\u00fcnden bir yazar. Bu arada Jung felsefesi; t\u00fcm insanlar\u0131n ortak bir bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu kabul eder. Yazar buradan yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. T\u00fcm insanlar\u0131n ortak bir bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131 var. Bu bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131, kendisini masallarda d\u0131\u015fa vuruyor asl\u0131nda. Bu y\u00f6n\u00fcyle masallar\u0131 incelemek ayn\u0131 zamanda kendimizi, kendi ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi de okumak anlam\u0131na geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jung felsefesi benim de \u00e7ok ilgimi \u00e7ekti, kendimden \u00f6rnek vereyim; \u0130nan\u0131lmaz bilge, cesur ve beni ko\u015fulsuz seven bir ananem vard\u0131. Hayat\u0131m\u0131n her alan\u0131nda beni cesaretlendirmi\u015ftir. Hangi ya\u015f\u0131ma gelsem ve yeni bir \u015feye ba\u015flayacak olsam; ananeme, \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 de\u011fil mi? Yapabilir miyim? Diye sorard\u0131m. O da bana her zaman \u201cBen senin ya\u015f\u0131ndayken, kurt gibiydim\u201d derdi. 25 ya\u015f\u0131mda da ayn\u0131, 30 ya\u015f\u0131mda da, 35 ya\u015f\u0131mda da ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleyi duydum ondan hep! Bug\u00fcn biliyorum ki, ananem ya\u015fasa idi, yine bir \u015fey sorsam ayn\u0131 cevab\u0131 verecekti J (RIP) \u0130nan\u0131lmaz olan, bu c\u00fcmlenin kitab\u0131n i\u00e7inde yer alan felsefe ile birebir \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fmesi idi.  Ananem ger\u00e7ekten bir kurt kad\u0131n vah\u015fi do\u011fas\u0131na sahipti. Evrende psi\u015fik bir haf\u0131za var ve \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze d\u00f6n\u00fcp, i\u00e7imizi dinlersek ortak bilinci yakalayabiliriz. Kendi i\u00e7imizdeki vah\u015fi do\u011fay\u0131 ke\u015ffetti\u011fimizde ise, tamamen \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015firiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kitab\u0131n i\u00e7indeki masallara gelirsek;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f6rt Haham:<\/strong> Yedinci g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcn, yedinci kat\u0131nda, yedinci kubbede Kutsal Ezekiel \u00c7ark\u0131\u2019n\u0131 seyreden hahamlar\u0131n \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mavi Sakal:<\/strong> Uzak da\u011flarda beyaz rahibelerin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir manast\u0131rda Mavi Sakal\u2019a ait sakallar\u0131n gizeminin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fen \u00fc\u00e7 k\u0131z karde\u015fin yok edici tutkular\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vasalisa:<\/strong> \u00d6l\u00fcm d\u00f6\u015fe\u011findeki annesinin hediyesi oyuncak bebek ile \u00fcvey annesi ve \u00fcvey k\u0131z karde\u015flerinin Baba Yaga\u2019dan ate\u015f dilemeye g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u0131z\u0131n korku ile m\u00fccadelesi, \u00f6devleri (9 ba\u015fl\u0131k).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manavee:<\/strong> \u0130kiz k\u0131z karde\u015fler ile fl\u00f6rt eden Manavee\u2019ye karde\u015flerin isimlerini tahmin s\u0131nav\u0131na ortak olan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u00f6pek \u00fczerinden kad\u0131n ve erkeklerin, do\u011falar\u0131n\u0131n derin taraflar\u0131n\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in m\u00fccadelelerinde, birtak\u0131m gerek\u00e7elerle \u00e7o\u011funlukla da egolar\u0131 tatmin eden hazlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7elinmesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130skelet Kad\u0131n:<\/strong> Babas\u0131n\u0131n onaylamad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey y\u00fcz\u00fcnden denize at\u0131lan, bal\u0131klar\u0131n etlerini yiyip bitirdi\u011fi ve g\u00f6zlerini oydu\u011fu bir k\u0131z \u00fczerinden sevginin hayat\/\u00f6l\u00fcm\/hayat do\u011fas\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015fmesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7irkin \u00d6rdek Yavrusu:<\/strong> \u00d6rdek yumurtalar\u0131 aras\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131kla \u00e7irkin bir yavru olarak d\u00fcnyaya gelen ku\u011funun d\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131 ve varl\u0131k m\u00fccadelesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kelebek Kad\u0131n:<\/strong> Vadileri, derin kanyonlar\u0131, \u00e7\u00f6lleri a\u015farak La Mariposa\u2019y\u0131, Kelebek Kad\u0131n\u2019\u0131n dans\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye gelen tutkulu insanlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Ayakkab\u0131lar: <\/strong>K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 ayakkab\u0131 tutkusunun, cellad\u0131ndan ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n kesilmesini dileyen birine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi ser\u00fcveni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fok Derisi, Ruh Derisi:<\/strong> Derisinin pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015fen fok k\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck m\u00fccadelesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La Llorona:<\/strong> Aldat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zengin Hidalgo\u2019dan intikam i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 nehre atan bir kad\u0131n\u0131n kirli nehirlerdeki aray\u0131\u015flar\u0131, vah\u015fi ruhun kirlenmesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kibrit\u00e7i K\u0131z:<\/strong> Kibrit alevindeki umutlara sar\u0131lan bir k\u0131z\u0131n so\u011fu\u011fun, ac\u0131n\u0131n, a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcne y\u00fckselmesi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dc\u00e7 Alt\u0131n Sa\u00e7:<\/strong> D\u00fcnyay\u0131 yapan kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131, mitlerdeki geceler. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baubo \u2013 Kar\u0131n Tanr\u0131\u00e7as\u0131:<\/strong> Yery\u00fcz\u00fc Ana Demeter\u2019in g\u00fczel k\u0131z\u0131 Proserpina\u2019n\u0131n Hades\u2019ten kurtulma ser\u00fcveni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7akal Dick:<\/strong> \u0130stediklerinin elde etme u\u011fruna insanlara oyunlar oynayan Dick\u2019in maceras\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hilal Ay\u0131s\u0131:<\/strong> Kocas\u0131n\u0131n, sava\u015f\u0131n berbat etti\u011fi ruhuna \u015fifa bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir kad\u0131n\u0131n hilal ay\u0131s\u0131ndan bir k\u0131l u\u011fruna da\u011flara t\u0131rmanmas\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alt\u0131n Sa\u00e7l\u0131 Kad\u0131n:<\/strong> Sa\u00e7lar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n toprakta b\u00fcy\u00fcyen alt\u0131n sa\u00e7lar\u0131yla katilinin bulunmas\u0131 vah\u015fi ormanda ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n adalete kavu\u015fmas\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elsiz K\u0131z:<\/strong> Servet u\u011fruna iblisle pazarl\u0131\u011fa giri\u015fen bir de\u011firmencinin k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n ellerini kesmek zorunda kalmas\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ocukken \u00e7ok masal okurdum, \u00f6yle b\u00f6yle de\u011fil, binlerce\u2026 Binbir Gece Masallar\u0131, Uzakdo\u011fu Masallar\u0131, Arap Masallar\u0131, Hint Masallar\u0131, Ezop\u2019tan Masallar, Orta Avrupa Masallar\u0131, Grimm Masallar\u0131, Andersen\u2019den Masallar, \u00c7in Masallar\u0131, T\u00fcrk Masallar\u0131 vs. daha akl\u0131ma gelmeyen nicelerini okudum, sonra onlara mitoloji de e\u015flik etti. Kafam\u0131n i\u00e7ini bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; masallar ve onlara e\u015flik eden mitolojik hik\u00e2yeler\u2026 Belki de \u201cKurtlarla Ko\u015fan Kad\u0131nlar\u0131\u201d bu y\u00fczden bu kadar \u00e7ok sevdim ve sizlere \u00f6neriyorum, kim bilir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Masallardan ve mitlerden bahsetmi\u015fken; g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze uyarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m masallardan sorular\u0131mla, sizleri ba\u015f ba\u015fa b\u0131rak\u0131yorum:<\/p>\n\n\n\n